Moesha, Vagina Tightening Creams, and the Need for Sex Education in Ghana

I think we need a lot of sexual and reproductive health education in Ghana. One of the things Moesha said in the CNN documentation (which many women are readily coroborating) is the prevalence of so-called vagina tightening creams in Ghana. Many Ghanaian men appear utterly ignorant about how sex works, which I think is causing all this nonsense. A friend of mine said yesterday that when he was a barber, he heard a customer say that when he’s having sex with his woman she gets very wet and it’s super nasty. Weeks later his homie’s girlfriend wanted to know how she could make her vagina tighter and dryer so that her boyfriend can enjoy sex with her because she doesn’t want him to think her wet and sloppy vagina means she’s a hoe(ashawo/whore).

I nearly punched my phone reading these utterly foolish narratives. Ignorance they say is a damn disease. In this case a disease that can and do actually cause people serious health problems. Anyone with preliminary knowledge about sexual attraction and intercourse knows that when a woman is sexually attracted to you or ‘in the mood’ properly, her down there is often likely to become warm and wet. What I fear from these narratives above, especially from the guy is that he’s likely been having sex with women who feel absolutely zero attraction to him or have never been in the mood to have sex with him so he thinks having dry sex is normal. Something that should actually make him excited and happy—because a woman is likely turned on by you and excited about this exchange—rather makes him think it’s nasty. What a fool ignorance makes man.

My second issue with these narratives above, especially from the lady is the idea that her man will think she’s a hoe because she gets wet for him. There’s serious cultural and sexual repression bundled up in that mindset. For one, I think it is part of the cultural narrative that women aren’t necessarily supposed to be as excited about sex as men are and a sexually active woman is a hoe or ashawo (also mentioned in the documentary). Women’s excitement often makes them wet. So if you’re excited you’re a whore then? Why? A damn ignorant shame.

Last but not least of my concerns is the actual health risks this ignorance poses for both men and women but especially for women. This nonsense about friction and vagina tightening creams is absurd because it is trying hard to go against the natural workings of female sexuality. The walls of the vagina is very sensitive (I’m told more sensitive than any part of the human body). The area is also very much like the lining of the rectum—very easily torn by dry matter jammed through it. If you have ever had constipation and dry stool, you know the dangers of an extremely dry substance passing through these openings.

Now imagine a guy’s erect penis getting shoved through—at high speeds (you know some of these boys be doing it like they’re Usain Bolt😅)—the sensitive and dry inner walls of a vagina. I’m cringing even imagining it. There’s likely at the very least actual uncomfortable pain (not excited pain) coursing through the lady’s body because of the dryness of this frictive action. Why do we lubricate parts of our vehicles that conjoin together but can’t understand that the most natural conjoining need lubrication as well? But I am worried about the fissures that might happen as a result of this unnatural tightening and lack of lubrication of the vaginas of our women. These fissures are likely to make it easy for the spread of diseases to the woman in particular but to both partners in general. That’s my biggest worry about this damned ignorance.

Anyway, I think this obsession with tight vaginas is as a result of male insecurity. Given that many of you like to boast of your member’s strength, why are you on the hunt for tight vaginas? We maybe should come out and say we have average penises and stop fronting because all these men are too worried about loose vaginas (very absurd too seeing that many think a girl who’s had sex will have her vagina loose forgetting that a vagina pushed out their big empty heads and still their fathers enjoyed sex with it). This tight vagina nonsense is also likely the reason men chaise young girls around all the time. This ignorance really does have terrible consequences. If you are too worried about not satisfying her because of your average member, then learn other tricks instead of relying on just shoving it into a vagina as if your member has some magic. Learn other tricks and engage in foreplay to compensate for your image members (reminder set to find out how this works 😂). Bye bye!

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